14 12 / 2010
Strength
Alright, so everyone likes to think that they have more will power than they do. That is why people go back to cheaters, and give those who didn’t even deserve one chance 2 or 3.
So this is me telling you that you don’t need it. Anyone who changes you into something that you are not only deserves to see the sight of you walking away. There is a loophole for everything, there is an excuse for any scenario. He wouldn’t do that to me, I’m different.
You’re not.
You are just getting walked over.
Stand up for yourself, say what you always want to say.
But most of all DO NOT under any circumstance compromise who YOU are.
Sometimes I think that I am the exception to the rule, that they will leave for me, change for me, be who I need them to be… for me. Then I have to remind myself, that it is not about me, it is about them. And usually to be honest, a quite mess of a life, full of baggage, them.
So girls here you go, get off the couch and grab the remote to your life. Change the channel, change your hair, change your perfume, change anything. Never be afraid to be who you are.
A wise woman once said, no man has the right to belittle you. And its true.
Just remember Eve made the first bad choice, so you can make one too. But make sure to learn from them so you don’t do it again. Live it in the moment and look at those mistakes as little bumps.
K
